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  Destiny

Date:              04/25/04

Where:           Unitarian Universalist Community Church of Santa Monica, CA

 

Several years ago I acquired this container for 25 cents -- at a yard sale on Long Island.  As my friends and family would attest, I’m pretty good at “drive-by assessments”…slowing down to 5 mph to scan the lawn for items I might need!  Piles of toys and baby clothes mean I can speed up again…books and furniture and tools of any kind mean I’ll be squeezing into the nearest available parking spot!

 This was not only how I furnished my apartment during lean years, but it was how I connected with people, with history…learning about the layers of value attributed to material goods:  past or potential value, sentimental value, creative value.  What abundance there was! 

 It was like going to a museum, looking at dusty old artifacts of some prior time…except here I got the human story!  Sitting under an umbrella somewhere near the hedges was the person wearing the little change bag. 

 They told me WHY they were having this sale…where they were moving to or how they’re adopting a child and need more space.  They told stories about where some of these items came from, what they were used for, the memories attached to them -- and how they feel about letting go of them.

 This little container didn’t have much of a story that the owner could share.  “It’s old, belonged to a distant relative who traveled a great deal.  It has a crack in it – isn’t worth much at all….25 cents will do just fine.”   I didn’t argue! 

 But when I got home I took a closer look at this new purchase.  I saw that it was actually hand carved.  And, yes, it DID have a crack on one side…but SOMEone had drilled two small holes on either side of the crack and threaded a tiny piece of leather through the holes to mend it…barely perceptible!

 Someone had had a vision about this small simple bowl, cared so much about that vision, that they took the time and energy to find a way to transform it, to give it a new life, a new kind of beauty.  SOMEone had chosen to DO this and, at least one person years later had chosen NOT  to simply throw it way!

 Why not just throw it all away?  Why not simply toss aside that for which we no longer have use…to which we have no personal attachment? 

 There certainly seems to be a growing awareness regarding the NEED to simplify our lives.  Many of us experience ourselves as having A LOT, too much in fact!   Too much sensory input, too much responsibility, stress and even too much stuff!  Working so hard to maintain what we have, we complain there’s not enough time or space for it all.   Self-help sections in bookstores address, but also ADD to our accumulated clutter… and the self-storage business is huge!   

 As are our landfills. 

 A great deal of what we DO end up throwing away can well be reused or refurbished, but CHOOSING what to do with our abundance is not always a simple process! 

 The choice may well arise in response to overflowing closets or landfills, and at that point it’s pretty crucial that the choice-BE-made! 

 This past Thursday, as some of you may know, was Earth Day…the 34th annual national celebration of the richness and the fragility of the Earth.   

In the time leading up to that day newspapers print all the ugly statistics regarding the damage we have done to the earth and to ourselves by carelessly using and abusing the earth’s resources. It’s pretty ugly…and for some people those statistics ARE what it takes to start thinking about what to do.

Guilt works.  A lot of people respond to guilt, even if they don’t like it!  I know I do, at times.

In 1970 when the first Earth Day celebration was held, my girl scout troop spent months studying graphs and charts and pictures of slimy rivers and moldering trash heaps.  I’d never seen anything like that in real life, but I acquired a healthy dose of guilt, and that motivated me to do my part. 

At the age of 11, that meant washing the peanut butter off my aluminum foil wrappers when I was done with my sandwich…so the foil could be reused over and over again!  I even scavenged the neighborhood for all the discarded soda pop-tops I could find and made a chain-mail vest out of them!  For a while there, I got pretty creative with garbage…and I never threw anything away.  I would have felt too guilty.

When I was faced with relocating to Chicago three years ago, and then to Los Angeles last year, guilt resurfaced in a big way!  I couldn’t possibly take all of that accumulated abundance with me – and I couldn’t bear the idea of it ending up in a landfill after all!

I had my own yard-sales, wore my own little change bag and told my own stories about the stuff I was passing on to others…but it was hard.  I did what I could, sorted and donated as much as possible, but I still felt guilty…and a little anxious. 

What I’ve learned since is that Earth Day is about more than ugly statistics and guilt.  It’s about more than slimy rivers and moldering trash heaps.  It’s about vision!

It’s about looking at ALL that inhabits the world and searching, as Mary Oliver did in her poem,  for SOUL.  “Who has it…what about the moose…what about the maple trees…what about the roses and lemons and their shining leaves?  What about the grass?”

It’s EVERYWHERE!

What about those who don’t experience abundance at all… those who walk past our homes, past our jobs, past the front door to this church…surviving on very little, TOO little?

Life is sacred.  Starhawk writes “All people, all living things, are part of the earth’s life, and thus are sacred” …HOLY.

Now I realize what some of you may be thinking…HOLY is a word Unitarian Universalists don’t use often.  But I think we really need to! 

HOLY comes from the Hebrew words kadosh and kedushah…combining “separation and dedication”, individual uniqueness and relationship.  (DeLange, P187)  HOLINESS is an acknowledgement of individual worth and of interdependence!  To BE holy is to manifest both of those elements…and EVERYTHING does!

Everything has a “value beyond it’s usefulness for human ends”  (Starhawk). 

Life is sacred, the earth: Holy …people: Holy, moose and maple trees and roses and lemons, their shining leaves, the grass…and we: HOLY!

And if that’s true, which I believe it is, why are we throwing away our future, of all things?  Why are we content to dump medical waste in our waterways?  Why are we content to build cities on toxic landfills, to bed ourselves in poison? 

California has the second highest number of toxic dump sites in the country!  Increased infertility, birth defects and autoimmune diseases are said to be our destiny and our home planet is quickly becoming a “wide, windswept place…filled with the things that no one wanted.” (Ward/Anderson) 

What choices are we making?!

19th century American poet Edwin Markham wrote that “Choices are the hinges of destiny.”   They create the movement of our actions, affecting our personal and collective futures. 

Destiny is not some distant thing over which we have no control.  It is the fulfillment of our Holiness – the fulfillment of our lives lived in the knowledge that we each are uniquely valuable AND inherently dedicated to each other…no one thing or person standing higher or lower than any other. 

In the story shared earlier a dream prompted an idea:  a vision that the holder of the dream chose to respond to.  But the dream didn’t come from nowhere.  It came from his own environment, from the piles of other people’s garbage, from the futile nature of trying to clear it away - it couldn’t BE cleared away.  It could only be transformed! 

One man, one vision, turned a wasteland into a forest…into a holy place where the vibrance of life was made manifest!

Each of us here in this sanctuary is born into, lives within AND contributes to circles of environment that can and must inspire vision!  We are all called to engage with these circles:  the people, the animals, the plants, the waterways, the landscape, the histories….looking for the Holy, responding to the Holy!

We’re called to ask questions - to listen to stories and memories of value, to help each other hear the ugly statistics and develop the vision to support the HOLINESS of life.  All LIFE.  To MOVE the hinges of destiny, and thereby fulfill our own Holiness!

To me, this means moving beyond guilt to love…learning to “care FULLY and to let go thoughtfully…enjoying the abundance of the earth and returning to it with natural generosity.” (Kornfield)

Practically: it means identifying, and identifying-WITH, our environments.  All of them.

It means doing drive-by assessments, thinking twice before consuming or discarding anything…including people; supporting organizations like “Heal the Bay” and legislation dedicated to a healthy planet, a blue/green sphere where the vibrance of life IS and remains manifest.

It means “living content with small means…listening to the stars and birds, babes and sages with an open heart.” (Channing).  It means embracing the truth of life’s inherent value and inherent interdependence. 

It means moving the hinges of destiny through our daily choices. 

So May it Be.  Amen.

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 SUPPORTING RESOURCES FOR THIS SERMON

 

Opening Words             Some Questions You Might Ask, by Mary Oliver

 

Is the soul solid, like iron?

Or is it tender and breakable, like the wings of a moth in the beak of an owl?

Who has it, and who doesn’t?  I keep looking around me.

The face of the moose is as sad as the face of Jesus.

The swan opens her white wings slowly.

In the fall, the black bear carries leaves into the darkness.

One question leads to another.

Does it have a shape?  Like an iceberg?  Like the eye of a hummingbird?

Does it have one lung, like the snake and the scallop?

Why should I have it, and not the anteater who loves her children?

Why should I have it, and not the camel?

Come to think of it, what about the maple trees?

What bout the blue iris?

What about all the little stones, sitting alone in the moonlight?

What about the roses, and lemons, and their shining leaves?

What about the grass?

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Children's Story              The Tin Forrest, by Helen Ward

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Meditation    by William Ellery Channing, from Earth Prayers, P108

 

To live content with small means,

To seek elegance rather than luxury, and refinement rather than fashion,

To be worthy, not respectable, and wealthy, nor rich,

To study hard, think quietly, talk gently, act frankly,

To listen to stars and birds, babes and sages with open heart,

To bear all cheerfully, do all bravely, await occasions, hurry never-

In a word, to let the spiritual, unbidden and unconscious grow up through the common.

This is to be my symphony.

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 Reading            by Starhawk, from Prayers for a Thousand Years, P205

The earth is a living, conscious being.  In company with cultures of many different times and places, we name these things as sacred:  air, fire, water, and earth.

Whether we see them as the breath, energy, blood, and body of the Mother, or as the blessed gifts of a Creator, or as symbols of the interconnected systems that sustain life, we know that nothing can live without them.     

To call these things sacred is to say that they have a value beyond their usefulness for human ends, that they themselves become the standards by which our acts, our economics, our laws, and our purposes must be judged.  No one has the right to appropriate them or profit from them at the expense of others.  Any government that fails to protect them forfeits its legitimacy.

All people, all living things, are part of the earth’s life, and thus are sacred. No one of us stands higher or lower than any other.  Only justice can assure balance; only ecological balance can sustain freedom.  Only in freedom can that fifth sacred thing we call spirit flourish in its full diversity.

To honor the sacred is to create conditions in which nourishment, sustenance, habitat, knowledge, freedom, and beauty can thrive.  To honor the sacred is to make love possible.

To this (may we) dedicate our curiosity, our will, our courage, our silences, and our voices.  To this (may we) dedicate our lives.

 

Closing Words            Adapted from Jack Kornfield, Prayers for a Thousand Years, P59

May our simple prayer be that in all things we learn to love well.

That we learn to touch the ever-changing seasons of life

with a great heart of compassion.

That we live with the peace and justice we wish for the earth.

That we learn to care fully and let go gracefully.

That we enjoy the abundance of the earth and return to it with natural generosity.

That throughout our own lives, through joy and sorrow in thought, word and deed,

We bring benefit and blessings to all that lives.

That our hearts and the hearts of all beings learn to be freed.

 
 
   Rev. Stefanie S. Etzbach-Dale, Copyright 2004